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New parent says video games helped them cope with sudden parenting anxiety

A writer who became a parent describes intense, unexpected anxiety after their child's arrival, with ordinary objects and places suddenly feeling dangerous. They say playing video games became the most optimistic way they found to view the world and helped them manage the constant new worries of parenthood. This shift reframed daily hazards and reduced the overwhelming sense of threat created by new responsibilities.

• Author became a parent and experienced immediate love paired with intense, unexpected anxiety.
• Everyday items and environments were perceived as hazards—cutlery, plug sockets, uneven woodland floors and potentially poisonous mushrooms.
• Author identifies video games as the most optimistic outlook they discovered to cope with parenting stresses.
• Turning to games helped the author manage the 'endless new things, new worries and new sources of nightmares' introduced by parenthood.